Thursday, November 17, 2005

Hello Dolly

Just second-coated two doors. LJ out at career mentoring meeting.
So the other night we watched the Country Music Awards. It was much much better than many of the other awards shows I've watched - I do like to watch awards shows, they are good for people watching. Anyway, I really enjoyed this show, there was more music and less talk and there seemed to be an atmosphere of support and respect among the artists. But the BIG highlight for me was that Dolly Parton performed. I love her. I really do. Her voice has a lightness and a clarity to it that reminds me of snowflakes and fresh air, of nature. You know that 'Who would you have to dinner if you could have anyone' question? Well, Dolly would be on my guest list for sure. I've seen her interviewed on television and she appeared articulate and compassionate and intelligent and spiritual. At the awards she sang with Elton John, whose singing and musicianship I also enjoy, though the 'vile pigs' comments less so. They sang John Lennon's Imagine and Dolly sounded wonderful. Country music is big business here in Calgary and while there are certain aspects of the culture that can sometimes surround it that I don't enjoy, there is so much country music I love. I've been trying to share some of this love with LJ and though he softens from time to time, he seems to feel that if he professes admiration for any music other than rock and metal, he will somehow be disloyal to some kind of music god (James Hetfield/Kerry King, I don't know who specifically). That's not to say he doesn't enjoy other kinds of music, I catch him enjoying them all the time...it's just that when cornered on it in a discussion we always get into a big tiff (which is contributed to by our mutual love of debates - LJ's love and devotion to arguing over EVERYTHING being greater (though only slightly) than mine) and he refuses to state (on the record) that he likes country. However, even with the argumentative LJ, there is an admission of Dolly Parton's greatness and I recall once instance where he even requested, yes requested, that I play a Dolly CD. For real.
Watching the CMA awards, I also noticed that Carrie Underwood, winner of 2005 American Idol (a title snaffled from the rockin' Bo Bice) has lost a LOT of weight. She was looking mighty skinny up there when she sang Jesus Take the Wheel (honestly, who thinks of these song titles?) which made me kind of sad because she is a very beautiful woman and very young and I find the whole pressure to be thin thing really really disturbing. Of course, here I am assuming that she's been badgered into the weight loss by the media/publicity company whatever, and I could be totally wrong but she was perfectly healthy looking before and it would have been nice to have a role model (especially one who appeals to the kind of mainstream American market - perhaps that which most needs these kind of role models) who isn't super-thin.
Speaking of weight and health, while I don't worry excessively about my own, I am beginning to think that I will have to come up with some kind of fitness strategy for the winter here in Calgary. At home, in Australia, in Taiwan and in England I was always able to walk everywhere (actually scratch that for Taiwan because in the summer it was a two-block maximum before the heat exhaustion would set in) and walking has always been my preferred form of exercise. I am not a gym person. I have never used a weight machine. The idea terrifies me. People looking at me exercising...no bloody way. LJ has a friend here who is a yoga teacher and who has offered me a free one on one session. I should do it, but my sefl-concious reflex gags at the thought. However, with the aul' snow on its way I have to do something or I will get really out of shape and I worry a lot about the effect that would have on my energy levels (I need all the energy I can muster at the moment). So, eek, I might have to 'work out' in some way. Yuck.

Monday, November 14, 2005

In other news

Via feministing, an interesting piece on Maureen Dowd's book Are Men Necessary?
I've been thinking a lot about what I might focus on if I go ahead with the PhD application for next year. Right now ideas roll around tangle-like inside my head. I need to sit down and try to map them out on paper but I've been sidetracked by door painting and kitchen-cupboard cleaning. Tomorrow the window-fixing people are coming to see how much it will cost to replace the broken windows (there are three that I know of). I'm hoping that they might agree to put our storm windows up aswell. LJ at interview-skills workshop today and tomorrow.
If I could cut back on my Television Without Pity reading I would be even more productive.

Sunday, November 06, 2005

And the beat goes on

Today marks three weeks since we arrived in Calgary. LJ is still looking for a job and I have been doing some painting in the kitchen. Although I lived in my painting clothes and felt like I painted pretty much non-stop last week, I still only managed to get three doors and a bunch of the trim done. 'tis slow work - polyfill, sand, wipe, paint, and paint again on each surface. LJ is a little more critical than I am on the polyfill side and hijacked several of my attempts to move on to the painting leg, insisting that we do another round of polyfill and sanding first - Grrrr. Still, what is done looks good (I will try to post some pictures next week).
On Friday we also went to a church sale (a first for me, not being a church goer myself). The sale was GREAT! I could have bought so much more than we did and only some sense of misguided decency kept me from coming home with every piece of coloured glass they had (and they had a lot). We got a whole bunch of bits and pieces that we needed and that would have cost us a lot in the shops. My favourite is the spice rack that we picked up for $2.50 and which is just so super-cool that it deserves an entry all of its own. We are still working on filling all of the jars and putting it together (sound exciting?!) and I will post a picture when it is complete in all its greatness. I also bought some fabric and odds and ends that I plan to use for my Christmas crafting project - homemade presents are looking likely this year and I want to make something simple as I'm still a newcomer to the whole proper crafting scene.
I also finally got together with an old friend from Taiwan yesterday. It was lovely to see her and to reconnect and catch up a bit. I have been a little concerned that as I'm not working or studying yet (and not likely to be for some time) I might find it difficult to make my own friends, which is v. important to me, and that I might get a little frustrated with life as 'LJ's girlfriend' rather than being just Gxx, however unintentional on everyone's parts that might be. It was good to feel that I have a friend in town who has known me that bit longer and more in my own right. Plus LL is smart and fun and aware which is fab.
I could post for much longer but we have to go to LJ's mum's house to make sandwiches for his Grandmother's birthday lunch tomorrow. I picked all these fancy pinwheel ones out of the book his mum showed me last week and now I have to try to assemble them. Eek.